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Caring vs. Being Nosey

There is a fine line between asking questions because you care and want to help vs. asking to be nosey and can’t help. People who feel like it’s okay to ask you personal questions about your life and circumstances are completely out of line. Don’t ever be afraid to tell someone “It’s None Of Your Business.” People need to be more considerate of someones feelings before they decide to give you a 20/20 interview. The worst thing that someone can do to someone who is having a hard time is ask them a million questions and say “Well I’ll Pray For You” or “Well What Are You Going To Do?”  But I have a news flash for those types of people. If that person had an answer they wouldn’t be in that position. Just maybe God is allowing them to endure that process to make them stronger. It’s not for everyone to know. And everyone isn’t supposed to know what you’re going through while your going through it. God often wants to test us to see if we will take our troubles to him first. 

I’m not saying that it’s not okay to be concerned about someone but think before you start questioning someone. Stop and ask yourself these questions: Am I asking because I want to help them? Or Am I asking these questions just to know?  

Maybe I’m just different because if I see someone in need I help them. I’ve learned that sometimes you have to give even when you don’t feel like you have it to give. Every time I stop and help someone it’s me sowing a seed of love. Anytime you sow a seed of love God honors that and blesses you. Life is about being a blessing to people not telling them that you’ll keep them in your prayers. If you can help someone do it and trust that God will make a way for you. That’s what having faith is. Sometimes we are the answers to someones prayers. Just stop and think about that the next time you see someone who is struggling. It’s cool to pray for someone but it’s even better when you’re able to be a blessing……
 

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